Raise your children to be good people: Good spouses, good employees,
good citizens.
Teach them to be kind and
to respect others.
Teach them to be loyal and confident.
Teach them
to love.
In order to encourage all these characteristics the parent
must teach through example. Thus, we must be (or try to be) all these
things ourselves.
Teach your children to make good decisions. That
means discipline. At times it will be unpleasant but we must
teach our
children that making bad decisions leads to unpleasant
consequences.
Foster a joy for life. Allow them to play and be
children. Encourage
them to love learning.
Always listen but always be the parent.
Give
your children a clear moral paradigm whether it be rooted in religion
or ethics or both.
Understand that as parents we are the most
important factor in what type of person our children become.
What we
do matters, even the little things.