If your marriage is a wreck, or you are an emotional mess, or you have a diagnosable mental illness, don’t
assume your children are not aware or not affected. THEY ARE. Put
everything else on the back burner and do what you can to take care of
yourself/your marriage. Parents
are like a harbor; the ships are lost and helpless without the harbor
so the harbor must be there and be in good repair. The harbor must
come first.
